{"id":19716,"date":"2026-10-21T08:06:46","date_gmt":"2026-10-21T08:06:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dev95.site\/annem-yoksa-simdi-buyudum\/"},"modified":"2026-10-21T08:06:46","modified_gmt":"2026-10-21T08:06:46","slug":"annem-yoksa-simdi-buyudum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dev95.site\/ar\/annem-yoksa-simdi-buyudum\/","title":{"rendered":"Annem yoksa \u015fimdi b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fcm\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"dev95-1919602339\" class=\"dev95-- dev95-entity-placement\" role=\"region\" aria-label=\"\u0627\u0644\u0625\u0639\u0644\u0627\u0646\u0627\u062a\"><script async=\"async\" data-cfasync=\"false\" src=\"https:\/\/pl27862732.profitableratecpmnetwork.com\/2ad7a50e0bbc23ac6801d7b77c501463\/invoke.js\"><\/script>\r\n<div id=\"container-2ad7a50e0bbc23ac6801d7b77c501463\"><\/div><\/div><div id=\"dev95-1448541227\" class=\"dev95-before-content dev95-entity-placement\" role=\"region\" aria-label=\"\u0627\u0644\u0625\u0639\u0644\u0627\u0646\u0627\u062a\"><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Stop wasting time on dead links! \ud83d\uded1 This smart platform automatically detects your device and country to give you the exact best offer instantly. 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Sa\u00e7lar\u0131na aklar d\u00fc\u015fse, hayat\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn yollar\u0131ndan ge\u00e7se, nice makamlar g\u00f6rse, nice insan\u0131n derdine ortak olsa da annesinin g\u00f6zlerinde hep o ilk g\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuktur. \u0130nsan bazen bir \u00f6m\u00fcr boyunca b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc zanneder ta ki annesini kaybedene kadar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc annesi hayattayken d\u00fcnyan\u0131n bir yerinde h\u00e2l\u00e2 s\u0131\u011f\u0131nabilece\u011fi bir kap\u0131, d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakabilece\u011fi bir \u00e7ift g\u00f6z, kendisini herkesten \u00f6nce anlayacak bir y\u00fcrek vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ben, Mesut De\u011fer\u2026 Avukat, ara\u015ft\u0131rmac\u0131 yazar, milletvekili\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Hayat\u0131m boyunca insanlar\u0131n sorunlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zmeye, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n derdine \u00e7are bulmaya, adaletin ve hakkaniyetin pe\u015finden y\u00fcr\u00fcmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Nice insan\u0131n y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc omuzlad\u0131m, nice kap\u0131y\u0131 ba\u015fkalar\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7ald\u0131m. Ama b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131n \u00f6tesinde, 94 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki annesinin g\u00f6zlerinin i\u00e7ine bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda h\u00e2l\u00e2 onun \u00e7ocu\u011fu olan biriydim.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eimdi annem yok.<\/p>\n<p>Ve ben, ilk defa ger\u00e7ekten b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fc hissediyorum.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131n \u00e7ocuklu\u011fu, n\u00fcfus k\u00e2\u011f\u0131d\u0131ndaki ya\u015fla bitmiyor.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen bir anne son nefesini verdi\u011finde, insan\u0131n i\u00e7indeki \u00e7ocuk da evsiz kal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Annem Hac\u0131 Fatma De\u011fer&#8217;di. Babam Hasan De\u011fer&#8217;in e\u015fi (babam\u0131n 3 e\u015fi vard\u0131), 19 erkek ve 8 k\u0131z evlad\u0131n annesi, y\u00fczlerce torunun ninesi\u2026 Ailemizin haf\u0131zas\u0131, evimizin bereketi, kap\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n e\u015fi\u011findeki merhametti. Ailemiz y\u00fczlerce insana uzanan b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u00e7\u0131nard\u0131; annem ise o \u00e7\u0131nar\u0131n k\u00f6klerine su ta\u015f\u0131yan, dallar\u0131n\u0131 bir arada tutan g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez kuvvetti.<\/p>\n<p>Ama annemi anlatmak i\u00e7in ka\u00e7 \u00e7ocuk b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc, ka\u00e7 toruna sar\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ya da ka\u00e7 insan\u0131n hayat\u0131na dokundu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemek yetmez. Onu as\u0131l anlatan, kendi hayat\u0131ndan vazge\u00e7meyi g\u00f6ze alarak \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n gelece\u011fine nas\u0131l sahip \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Benim hik\u00e2yemde annem, yaln\u0131zca beni d\u00fcnyaya getiren kad\u0131n de\u011fil, benim d\u00fcnyam\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftiren insand\u0131r.<br \/>\n\u00a0<\/p>\n<div class=\"dnd-widget-wrapper context-custom_image type-image\">\n<div class=\"dnd-atom-rendered\"><!-- scald=599768:custom_image {\"additionalClasses\":\"\"} --><\/p>\n<div class=\"entry-media-inner-img\">\n   <img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.indyturk.com\/sites\/default\/files\/styles\/800xauto\/public\/thumbnails\/image\/2026\/10\/21\/1382147-1256481825.jpg?resize=800%2C533&#038;ssl=1\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" alt=\"Mesut De\u011fer, 7 Ekim 2026&apos;da hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaybeden annesi Hac\u0131 Fatma De\u011fer ile birlikte\" title=\"Mesut De\u011fer, 7 Ekim 2026&apos;da hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaybeden annesi Hac\u0131 Fatma De\u011fer ile birlikte\"><\/div>\n<p><!-- END scald=599768 --><\/div>\n<div class=\"dnd-caption-wrapper\">\n<div class=\"meta\"><!--copyright=599768-->Mesut De\u011fer, 7 Ekim 2026&#8217;da hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaybeden annesi Hac\u0131 Fatma De\u011fer ile birlikt<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bir annenin verdi\u011fi hukuk m\u00fccadelesi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>1980 y\u0131l\u0131yd\u0131. \u0130stanbul \u00dcniversitesi Hukuk Fak\u00fcltesini kazand\u0131m. O g\u00fcn\u00fcn ko\u015fullar\u0131nda, \u00e7evremde bir\u00e7ok insan ba\u015fka \u015feyler d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrken, benim okumam i\u00e7in en \u00e7ok \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131nan ki\u015fi annemdi. O, e\u011fitimimin yaln\u0131zca benim hayat\u0131m\u0131 de\u011fil, belki de benden sonra gelecek insanlar\u0131n hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 da de\u011fi\u015ftirece\u011fine inan\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen insan\u0131n kaderini de\u011fi\u015ftiren \u015fey, b\u00fcy\u00fck imk\u00e2nlar de\u011fil, bir tek insan\u0131n sars\u0131lmaz inanc\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Annemin elinde bug\u00fcn\u00fcn imk\u00e2nlar\u0131 yoktu. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 okutmak i\u00e7in \u00f6n\u00fcne serilmi\u015f yollar, haz\u0131r kaynaklar, g\u00fcvenli gelecekler de yoktu. Ama onda, b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlardan daha k\u0131ymetli bir \u015fey vard\u0131: <strong><em>\u0130nan\u00e7 <\/em><\/strong>ve <strong><em>fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Diyarbak\u0131r has\u0131r bilezi\u011fini bile verdi bana. Bir annenin kolundaki bilezik, yaln\u0131zca alt\u0131n de\u011fildir. O bilezikte y\u0131llar\u0131n eme\u011fi, hat\u0131ralar, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnler, bayramlar, belki de hi\u00e7 ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmeyen hayaller vard\u0131r. Annem o bilezi\u011fi bana verirken asl\u0131nda ge\u00e7mi\u015finden bir par\u00e7ay\u0131 gelece\u011fime emanet ediyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Ben o bilezi\u011fin yaln\u0131zca maddi de\u011ferini de\u011fil, ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 anlam\u0131 da hayat\u0131m boyunca unutmad\u0131m. Annem, bilezi\u011fini vererek beni okula g\u00f6nderdi; ben o fedak\u00e2rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n hakk\u0131n\u0131 verebilmek i\u00e7in \u00f6mr\u00fcm boyunca \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Hukuk fak\u00fcltesini bitirdim. Siyasete girdim. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n sorunlar\u0131yla ilgilendim. Birilerinin derdine \u00e7are olabilmek, birilerinin kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7alabilece\u011fi g\u00fcvenilir bir insan olmak istedim.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131n arkas\u0131nda annemin sesi vard\u0131:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000\"><strong><em>B\u00fcy\u00fcklere sayg\u0131 g\u00f6ster, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcklere sevgiyle yakla\u015f. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n i\u015fine ko\u015f. Kimsenin hakk\u0131n\u0131 yeme. \u0130nsanl\u0131k ad\u0131na yapabilece\u011finin en iyisini yap.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>\nBelki bu s\u00f6zleri her zaman ayn\u0131 c\u00fcmlelerle s\u00f6ylemedi. Ama hayat\u0131yla bana \u00f6\u011fretti\u011fi buydu. Annem, insanlar\u0131n beni yaln\u0131zca bir avukat, bir siyaset\u00e7i ya da bir milletvekili olarak g\u00f6rmesini istemedi. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n zor zamanlar\u0131nda kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7alabilece\u011fi, derdini anlatabilece\u011fi, g\u00fcvenebilece\u011fi bir insan olmam\u0131 istedi.<\/p>\n<p>Bir insan\u0131n sahip olabilece\u011fi en b\u00fcy\u00fck makam\u0131n, ba\u015fka insanlar\u0131n y\u00fcre\u011findeki g\u00fcven oldu\u011funu ondan \u00f6\u011frendim.<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn d\u00f6n\u00fcp hayat\u0131ma bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda anl\u0131yorum: Benim mesle\u011fim hukuk olabilir, u\u011fra\u015f\u0131m siyaset olabilir, yazd\u0131klar\u0131m ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131m olabilir. Ama b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131n \u00f6ncesinde annemin bana verdi\u011fi bir ahlak vard\u0131. O ahlak, hi\u00e7bir diploma ile kazan\u0131lmazd\u0131, hi\u00e7bir makamla sat\u0131n al\u0131namazd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Annem bana bir meslekten \u00f6nce insan olmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretti.<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>Bir annenin hi\u00e7 kapanmayan yaras\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Hayat\u0131n baz\u0131 ac\u0131lar\u0131 vard\u0131r, \u00fczerinden y\u0131llar ge\u00e7er ama zaman onlar\u0131 iyile\u015ftirmez. \u0130nsan yaln\u0131zca o ac\u0131yla ya\u015famay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenir. Annemin hayat\u0131nda b\u00f6yle bir yara vard\u0131: O\u011flu yani karde\u015fim Metin.<\/p>\n<p>1988 y\u0131l\u0131nda o\u011flu Metin De\u011fer k\u0131rsala gitmi\u015fti. 1993 y\u0131l\u0131nda \u00f6ld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc bilgisi ortaya \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131 ancak \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fcn kamuoyuna a\u00e7\u0131klanmas\u0131 2015 y\u0131l\u0131n\u0131 buldu. Annem, b\u00fct\u00fcn bu y\u0131llar boyunca Metin&#8217;in bir g\u00fcn d\u00f6nece\u011fine, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131na inand\u0131. Onun i\u00e7in umut, yaln\u0131zca bir duygu de\u011fildi; hayata tutunman\u0131n bi\u00e7imiydi.<\/p>\n<p>Bir anne, evlad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fc kabullenemedi\u011finde yaln\u0131zca bir ger\u00e7e\u011fe direnmez. Ayn\u0131 zamanda evlad\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocuklu\u011funu, sesini, evin i\u00e7indeki ayak seslerini, birlikte ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcnleri korumaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Belki de insan y\u00fcre\u011fi, dayanamayaca\u011f\u0131 bir ac\u0131n\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 hemen a\u00e7maz. O kap\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnde y\u0131llarca bekler.<\/p>\n<p>Annem de bekledi.<\/p>\n<p>Y\u0131llarca Metin&#8217;in d\u00f6nece\u011fine inand\u0131. Belki bir g\u00fcn kap\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131lacak, belki uzaktan bir ses duyulacak, belki de o\u011flu hi\u00e7bir \u015fey olmam\u0131\u015f gibi i\u00e7eri girecekti. Bir annenin kalbinde umut, bazen b\u00fct\u00fcn ger\u00e7eklerden daha uzun ya\u015far.<\/p>\n<p>Ahmet Kaya&#8217;n\u0131n <em>&#8220;A\u011flama Anne&#8221;<\/em> diye bilinen, <em>&#8220;Sa\u00e7lar\u0131na ak d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f, a\u011flama anne&#8221;, &#8220;bir g\u00fcn gelirim&#8221;<\/em> s\u00f6zleriyle y\u00fcre\u011fe dokunan t\u00fcrk\u00fcs\u00fc, annemin i\u00e7inde ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 f\u0131rt\u0131nan\u0131n sesiydi. O t\u00fcrk\u00fcy\u00fc dinledik\u00e7e a\u011flard\u0131. Fakat a\u011flamas\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kendi i\u00e7inde ya\u015far, ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na yans\u0131tmamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcyd\u00fc. \u0130nsanlarla konu\u015fur, evine geleni a\u011f\u0131rlar, sorunlar\u0131n\u0131 dinler, hayat\u0131n ak\u0131\u015f\u0131na ayak uydururdu. Oysa y\u00fcre\u011finin bir k\u00f6\u015fesinde y\u0131llarca dinmeyen bir f\u0131rt\u0131na kopuyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Bir anne bazen b\u00fct\u00fcn ailesini ayakta tutabilmek i\u00e7in kendi y\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerinde durur.<\/p>\n<p>Annemin Metin&#8217;e duydu\u011fu \u00f6zlem de b\u00f6yleydi. Ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6stererek de\u011fil, saklayarak ya\u015fad\u0131. Belki de baz\u0131 yaralar\u0131n en a\u011f\u0131r taraf\u0131, insan\u0131n onlar\u0131 anlatacak kelimeleri bulamamas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Hastanede, ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131n son g\u00fcnlerinde, yo\u011fun bak\u0131mda yatarken ilk kez o\u011flunun ad\u0131n\u0131 tekrar tekrar s\u00f6yledi:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000\"><em>Metin\u2026 Metin\u2026<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>\nO an, y\u0131llar\u0131n sessizli\u011fi birdenbire \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc sanki. 94 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki annem, bedeninin b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc kaybetti\u011fi o yerde, \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn en eski ac\u0131s\u0131na sesleniyordu. Y\u0131llarca i\u00e7inde saklad\u0131\u011f\u0131 hasret, belki de son kez dudaklar\u0131ndan d\u00f6k\u00fcl\u00fcyordu.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda neleri hat\u0131rlar, hangi y\u00fczleri \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131r, hangi kap\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnde bekler? Bilmiyorum. Ama annemin o g\u00fcn Metin&#8217;i \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 hi\u00e7 unutmayaca\u011f\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Belki bir annenin kalbinde zaman\u0131n h\u00fckm\u00fc yoktur. Aradan ka\u00e7 y\u0131l ge\u00e7erse ge\u00e7sin, evlat hep evlatt\u0131r. 94 ya\u015f\u0131nda da olsa insan, kaybetti\u011fi \u00e7ocu\u011funun ad\u0131n\u0131 ayn\u0131 yerinden, ayn\u0131 s\u0131z\u0131yla s\u00f6yleyebilir.<\/p>\n<p>Annemin yaras\u0131, onunla birlikte topra\u011fa gitti. Ama o yaran\u0131n hik\u00e2yesi bizim ailemizin haf\u0131zas\u0131nda ya\u015famaya devam edecek.<br \/>\n\u00a0<\/p>\n<div class=\"dnd-widget-wrapper context-custom_image type-image\">\n<div class=\"dnd-atom-rendered\"><!-- scald=599767:custom_image {\"additionalClasses\":\"\"} --><\/p>\n<div class=\"entry-media-inner-img\">\n   <img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.indyturk.com\/sites\/default\/files\/styles\/800xauto\/public\/thumbnails\/image\/2026\/10\/21\/1382146-1656247126.jpg?resize=800%2C533&#038;ssl=1\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" alt=\"Mesut De\u011fer\u2019in 94 ya\u015f\u0131nda vefat eden annesi Hac\u0131 Fatma De\u011fer\" title=\"Mesut De\u011fer\u2019in 94 ya\u015f\u0131nda vefat eden annesi Hac\u0131 Fatma De\u011fer\"><\/div>\n<p><!-- END scald=599767 --><\/div>\n<div class=\"dnd-caption-wrapper\">\n<div class=\"meta\"><!--copyright=599767-->Mesut De\u011fer\u2019in 94 ya\u015f\u0131nda vefat eden annesi Hac\u0131 Fatma De\u011fer<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong>Herkese a\u00e7\u0131k bir kap\u0131, kendine ait bir yaln\u0131zl\u0131k<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Babam Hasan De\u011fer, uzun y\u0131llar milletvekilli\u011fi yapt\u0131. Annem, bu siyasi hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde de ailenin g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen eme\u011fini ta\u015f\u0131yan insand\u0131. Adnan Menderes, S\u00fcleyman Demirel, Ferruh Bozbeyli, Necmettin Erbakan&#8217;dan B\u00fclent Ecevit&#8217;ten Deniz Baykal&#8217;a kadar \u00fclkenin farkl\u0131 siyasi \u00e7izgilerinden pek \u00e7ok ismi evimizde a\u011f\u0131rlad\u0131. Onlar i\u00e7in yemekler haz\u0131rlad\u0131, sofralar kurdu, insanlar\u0131 bir araya getirdi.<\/p>\n<p>Siyaset, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman k\u00fcrs\u00fclerde yap\u0131lan konu\u015fmalarla, verilen deme\u00e7lerle, al\u0131nan kararlarla anlat\u0131l\u0131r. Oysa siyasetin arkas\u0131nda, insanlar\u0131 a\u011f\u0131rlayan evler, haz\u0131rlanan sofralar, sab\u0131rla s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fclen ili\u015fkiler ve g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen emekler vard\u0131r. Annem o hayat\u0131n i\u00e7indeydi fakat hi\u00e7bir zaman yaln\u0131zca bir siyaset\u00e7inin e\u015fi olarak ya\u015famad\u0131. Kendi iradesi, kendi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri, kendi d\u00fcnyas\u0131 vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Kap\u0131s\u0131 herkese a\u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. T\u00fcrkiye&#8217;nin d\u00f6rt bir yan\u0131nda ya\u015fayan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 vard\u0131 ama kendi evini terk etmedi. Gelenleri geri \u00e7evirmedi, yard\u0131m isteyenlere elinden geldi\u011fince destek oldu. Onun evinde misafir olmak i\u00e7in bir makam sahibi olmak, bir siyasi kimlik ta\u015f\u0131mak gerekmezdi. \u0130nsan olmak yeterdi.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130lkokul mezunu olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen T\u00fcrk\u00e7enin yan\u0131nda K\u00fcrt\u00e7e, Arap\u00e7a, Zazaca ve Latince bilmesi; okumas\u0131, konu\u015fmas\u0131, televizyonlardaki tart\u0131\u015fma programlar\u0131n\u0131 izlemesi, siyasi geli\u015fmeleri yak\u0131ndan takip etmesi, onun ne kadar geni\u015f bir d\u00fcnyaya sahip oldu\u011funu g\u00f6steriyordu.<\/p>\n<p>94 ya\u015f\u0131ndayd\u0131 ama zihni hayat\u0131n i\u00e7indeydi. \u00dclkenin meselelerini takip eder, geli\u015fmeleri de\u011ferlendirir, insanlar\u0131 tan\u0131r, olup bitenleri anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131. Ya\u015f almak, onun i\u00e7in d\u00fcnyadan kopmak anlam\u0131na gelmiyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn hastanede yatarken bir psikiyatri hocas\u0131na, <em>&#8220;Annemin ruh sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n ve kafa yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n durumunu \u00f6\u011frenelim, muayene edelim&#8221;<\/em><strong><em> <\/em><\/strong>diye konu\u015fmam \u00fczerine doktor annemin kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 odaya girdi. Doktorun anneme s\u00f6yledi\u011fi,<em><strong> &#8220;Y\u0131llar\u0131n ac\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131, \u00f6zellikle o\u011flu Metin&#8217;in kayb\u0131yla ilgili ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131, sorunlar\u0131n\u0131 hep i\u00e7ine atm\u0131\u015fs\u0131n ve bu sorunlar da\u011f gibi oldu. Bunu benimle payla\u015f ki yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fay\u0131m&#8221; <\/strong><\/em>dedi.<\/p>\n<p>Hocam\u0131z annemi de\u011ferlendirdikten sonra odadan \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda,<em> &#8220;Anneniz bizden sa\u011flam&#8221;<\/em> dedi.<\/p>\n<p>Y\u0131llarca biriktirdi\u011fi ac\u0131lar\u0131 payla\u015fmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6yledi\u011fimde annemin verdi\u011fi cevap ise onun d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6zetliyordu:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color:#000000\"><em>Seni tan\u0131m\u0131yorum ki payla\u015fay\u0131m.<\/em><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>\nBu c\u00fcmlede hem bir mesafe hem de b\u00fcy\u00fck bir hayat tecr\u00fcbesi vard\u0131. Annem, herkese kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7an, herkesi dinleyen, herkesin derdine ko\u015fan bir kad\u0131nd\u0131. Ama kendi derdini anlatmak i\u00e7in g\u00fcvenmek, birini tan\u0131mak, onunla bir ba\u011f kurmak istiyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc ta\u015f\u0131mak kolayd\u0131 belki. Kendi y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc bir yabanc\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne b\u0131rakmak ise onun i\u00e7in o kadar kolay de\u011fildi.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte annem b\u00f6yle bir insand\u0131. D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc, i\u00e7eride derin; konu\u015ftu\u011funda hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inden, sustu\u011funda y\u0131llar\u0131n y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc ta\u015f\u0131yan bir kad\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>Bir hayat\u0131n i\u00e7ine s\u0131\u011fan b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7eli\u015fkiler<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Annemin hayat\u0131, yaln\u0131zca aile hat\u0131ralar\u0131ndan ibaret de\u011fildi. O hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde bu \u00fclkenin toplumsal ger\u00e7ekleri, gelenekleri, d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcmleri ve zaman zaman insan\u0131 g\u00fcl\u00fcmseten, zaman zaman da derinden d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcren \u00e7eli\u015fkileri vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Babam\u0131n ilk evlili\u011finden olan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla annem aras\u0131nda da kendine \u00f6zg\u00fc bir aile hik\u00e2yesi bulunuyordu. \u0130lk evlilikte resm\u00ee nik\u00e2h olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n n\u00fcfus kay\u0131tlar\u0131 resm\u00ee nik\u00e2hl\u0131 annemin \u00fczerine yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u0130lk \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla aras\u0131nda yaln\u0131zca 11 ya\u015f vard\u0131. Bu nedenle annem, y\u0131llar sonra \u00e7ocuk gelin tart\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131nda an\u0131lan bir kad\u0131n h\u00e2line geldi.<\/p>\n<p>2004 y\u0131l\u0131nda, Avrupa Birli\u011fi s\u00fcrecinde \u00e7ocuk evliliklerinin yasaklanmas\u0131 tart\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 ya\u015fan\u0131rken, Diyarbak\u0131r Cumhuriyet Savc\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 annemi bu konuyla ilgili olarak san\u0131k s\u0131fat\u0131yla \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn: Bir \u00f6m\u00fcr boyunca \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fctm\u00fc\u015f, ailesini bir arada tutmu\u015f, evinin kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 herkese a\u00e7m\u0131\u015f, hayat\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131na adam\u0131\u015f bir kad\u0131n\u2026 Y\u0131llar sonra, ge\u00e7mi\u015fin ko\u015fullar\u0131 i\u00e7inde \u015fekillenmi\u015f bir aile hik\u00e2yesi nedeniyle adli bir s\u00fcrecin i\u00e7inde kendini buluyor.<\/p>\n<p>Bu an\u0131y\u0131 bug\u00fcn anlat\u0131rken, ge\u00e7mi\u015fi bug\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcleriyle yarg\u0131laman\u0131n kolayl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da, insanlar\u0131n hayatlar\u0131n\u0131n bazen resm\u00ee kay\u0131tlar\u0131n i\u00e7ine s\u0131\u011fmayan taraflar\u0131n\u0131 da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. Annemin hayat\u0131, tek bir s\u0131fatla a\u00e7\u0131klanamayacak kadar geni\u015fti. O, kendi d\u00f6neminin toplumsal ko\u015fullar\u0131n\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131yan, b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00e7eli\u015fkileriyle ya\u015fayan, seven, b\u00fcy\u00fcten, koruyan ve direnen bir kad\u0131nd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Onun hik\u00e2yesini anlatmak, yaln\u0131zca annemi anlatmak de\u011fildir. Ayn\u0131 zamanda bir d\u00f6nemin aile yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen eme\u011fini ve hayat\u0131n insanlara y\u00fckledi\u011fi rollerin a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131n hayat\u0131, yaln\u0131zca kendi \u00f6m\u00fcrlerinden ibaret de\u011fildir; ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 toplumun da aynas\u0131d\u0131r.<br \/>\n\u00a0<\/p>\n<div><iframe loading=\"lazy\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; picture-in-picture; web-share\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"476\" scrolling=\"no\" src=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/video.php?height=476&amp;href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Freel%2F1116725730792812%2F&amp;show_text=false&amp;width=267&amp;t=0\" style=\"border:none;overflow:hidden\" width=\"267\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p>\n<strong>Son bak\u0131\u015f<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Haziran 2026&#8217;da annemin kal\u00e7a kemi\u011fi k\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131. Ameliyat sonras\u0131 o tarihten sonra hayat\u0131 giderek zorla\u015ft\u0131. Bedeninin hareket kabiliyeti azald\u0131. Eyl\u00fcl ay\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131nda yo\u011fun bak\u0131m s\u00fcreci ba\u015flad\u0131. 7 Ekim 2026&#8217;da hayata g\u00f6zlerini yumdu. 94 ya\u015f\u0131ndayd\u0131 ve 40 g\u00fcnl\u00fck yo\u011fun bak\u0131m s\u00fcrecinde yan\u0131ndan ayr\u0131lmad\u0131m. Morgda annemin aln\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6pt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde <strong><em>&#8220;Yolun a\u00e7\u0131k olsun annem&#8221;<\/em><\/strong> c\u00fcmlesini m\u0131r\u0131ldand\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00fccudu art\u0131k hareket edemiyordu ama zihni yerindeydi. Gelenleri tan\u0131yordu. Y\u00fczleri se\u00e7iyor, kimlerin yan\u0131na geldi\u011fini biliyordu. Konu\u015fmas\u0131 zamanla kaybolmu\u015ftu; kelimeler dudaklar\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kamasa da g\u00f6zleri h\u00e2l\u00e2 konu\u015fuyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Hayat\u0131 boyunca namaz\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, Kur&#8217;an&#8217;\u0131 ezberlemi\u015f bir kad\u0131nd\u0131. Son g\u00fcnlerinde de s\u00fcrekli olarak Allah&#8217;\u0131n ad\u0131n\u0131 an\u0131yor,<em><strong> &#8220;Allah, Allah&#8221; <\/strong><\/em>diye sesleniyor, ge\u00e7mi\u015fte kaybetti\u011fimiz b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinin isimlerini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor, \u00f6l\u00fclerimizi hat\u0131rl\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n<p>Sanki hayat\u0131n\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn kap\u0131lar\u0131 birer birer a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131yor, ge\u00e7mi\u015ften insanlar gelip ge\u00e7iyordu g\u00f6zlerinin \u00f6n\u00fcnden. Belki de insan, son yolculu\u011funa \u00e7\u0131karken yaln\u0131zca ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00fcnleri de\u011fil, sevdi\u011fi herkesi de yan\u0131nda g\u00f6t\u00fcrmek istiyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyerek, <em><strong>&#8220;Ben gidiyorum&#8221;<\/strong><\/em> dedi.<\/p>\n<p>Bu s\u00f6z\u00fcn ne kadar\u0131n\u0131 bilin\u00e7li s\u00f6yledi\u011fini, ne kadar\u0131n\u0131 i\u00e7indeki bir duyguyla dile getirdi\u011fini bilemem. Ama o c\u00fcmle, haf\u0131zama kaz\u0131nd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Son g\u00fcn\u00fcnde annemle uzun uzun bak\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. Konu\u015fam\u0131yordu. Ben de g\u00f6zlerinin i\u00e7ine bak\u0131yordum. Y\u0131llarca bana yol g\u00f6steren, benim i\u00e7in m\u00fccadele eden, ne zaman yorulsam varl\u0131\u011f\u0131yla g\u00fc\u00e7 buldu\u011fum kad\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131mdayd\u0131. Ama bu kez ona s\u00f6ylemek istediklerimi kelimelere d\u00f6kemiyordum.<\/p>\n<p>Bir insan\u0131n hayat\u0131nda baz\u0131 anlar vard\u0131r, ne s\u00f6ylesen eksik kal\u0131r. Ne kadar konu\u015fsan, ne kadar sar\u0131lsan, ne kadar beklesen de zaman\u0131n elinden tutamazs\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>O g\u00fcn \u00f6\u011fle vakti i\u00e7ime tarif edemedi\u011fim bir his \u00e7\u00f6kt\u00fc. Sanki odan\u0131n havas\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fmi\u015f, \u00f6l\u00fcm sessizce kap\u0131ya dayanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Annemin s\u0131rt\u0131ndaki yaralar i\u00e7in pansuman yap\u0131lacakt\u0131. Bir s\u00fcreli\u011fine d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde annem vefat etmi\u015fti.<\/p>\n<p>Bir \u00f6mr\u00fcn b\u00fct\u00fcn hat\u0131ralar\u0131, insan\u0131n i\u00e7ine bir anda s\u0131\u011far m\u0131? \u00c7ocuklu\u011fum, gen\u00e7li\u011fim, hukuk fak\u00fcltesini kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131m g\u00fcn, annemin bana verdi\u011fi has\u0131r bilezik, onun nasihatleri, Metin&#8217;i \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ran sesi, hastane odas\u0131ndaki son bak\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u2026 Hepsi bir anda i\u00e7imde birbirine kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Oysa ben, annemin kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda h\u00e2l\u00e2 \u00e7ocuktum.<\/p>\n<p>O an, insan\u0131n hayatta ne kadar \u00e7ok \u015fey yapm\u0131\u015f olursa olsun, annesinin \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcne haz\u0131rlanamamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini anlad\u0131m. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc anne kayb\u0131, yaln\u0131zca bir insan\u0131n kayb\u0131 de\u011fildir. \u00c7ocuklu\u011funun tan\u0131\u011f\u0131, ge\u00e7mi\u015finin canl\u0131 haf\u0131zas\u0131, seni sen yapan hik\u00e2yenin en eski anlat\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 da gider.<\/p>\n<p>Annemin g\u00f6zleri kapand\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, benim hayat\u0131m\u0131n bir d\u00f6nemi de kapand\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>Diyarbak\u0131r&#8217;\u0131n u\u011furlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 anne<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Annemin ard\u0131ndan 3 g\u00fcn boyunca taziyemiz vard\u0131. On binlerce insan geldi. Diyarbak\u0131r&#8217;\u0131n siyaset\u00e7ileri, b\u00fcrokratlar\u0131, sivil toplum temsilcileri, dostlar\u0131m\u0131z, akrabalar\u0131m\u0131z ve T\u00fcrkiye&#8217;nin farkl\u0131 illerinden gelen insanlar\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlar Kur&#8217;an okudu, hatimler indirip anneme hediye etti. Kimi bir hat\u0131ras\u0131n\u0131 anlatt\u0131, kimi sessizce ba\u015fsa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 diledi, kimi g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 tutamad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Taziye kabul\u00fcn\u00fc \u0130stanbul ve Ankara&#8217;da yapt\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>O g\u00fcnlerde \u015funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm: Bir insan\u0131n ger\u00e7ek miras\u0131, geride b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 mal varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya da sahip oldu\u011fu makamlar de\u011fildir. Ger\u00e7ek miras\u0131, yoklu\u011funda ka\u00e7 insan\u0131n kalbinde bir bo\u015fluk a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Annemin evinin kap\u0131s\u0131ndan giren insanlar, onun yaln\u0131zca bizim annemiz olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6steriyordu. O, bir\u00e7ok insan\u0131n hayat\u0131na dokunmu\u015f, nice insan\u0131n derdini dinlemi\u015f, elinden geldi\u011fince yard\u0131m etmi\u015fti. Kimi i\u00e7in bir b\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fc, kimi i\u00e7in bir s\u0131rda\u015ft\u0131, kimi i\u00e7in bir evin s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Diyarbak\u0131r onu u\u011furlarken asl\u0131nda kendi haf\u0131zas\u0131n\u0131n da bir par\u00e7as\u0131n\u0131 u\u011furluyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat hi\u00e7bir kalabal\u0131k, bir evlad\u0131n i\u00e7indeki bo\u015flu\u011fu dolduram\u0131yor. Binlerce insan\u0131n taziyeye gelmesi, binlerce g\u00fczel s\u00f6z\u00fcn s\u00f6ylenmesi, annemin ne kadar sevildi\u011fini g\u00f6steriyor; ama ak\u015fam olup herkes evine d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde, insan kendi sessizli\u011fiyle ba\u015f ba\u015fa kal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte o zaman anl\u0131yorsun: <em>Kalabal\u0131klar bir insan\u0131 u\u011furlar, ama \u00f6zlem tek ba\u015f\u0131na ya\u015fan\u0131r.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>Annem yoksa \u015fimdi b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fcm<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcne kadar pek \u00e7ok insan\u0131n derdine ortak oldum. Hukukun i\u00e7inde, siyasetin i\u00e7inde, toplumsal ya\u015fam\u0131n farkl\u0131 alanlar\u0131nda m\u00fccadele ettim. Zaman zaman a\u011f\u0131r sorumluluklar \u00fcstlendim, kararlar verdim, insanlara yol g\u00f6stermeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Ama annem hayattayken, b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131n arkas\u0131nda kendimi h\u00e2l\u00e2 bir \u00e7ocuk gibi hissedebildi\u011fim bir yer vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131 anlatabilece\u011fim, \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fclerimi payla\u015fabilece\u011fim, bir \u015fey ba\u015fard\u0131\u011f\u0131mda g\u00f6zlerine bak\u0131p sevincini g\u00f6rebilece\u011fim bir anne\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bazen insan\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00fcc\u00fc, arkas\u0131nda duran birinin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmektir. O ki\u015fi konu\u015fmasa da, sana \u00f6\u011f\u00fct vermese de, yaln\u0131zca hayatta oldu\u011funu bilmek yeterlidir.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eimdi bir \u015feyi daha iyi anl\u0131yorum: Annemin ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ev, yaln\u0131zca bir ev de\u011fildi. \u00c7ocuklu\u011fumun adresiydi. Onun sesi, ge\u00e7mi\u015fimin sesiydi. Beni tan\u0131yan g\u00f6zleri, kim oldu\u011fumu bana hat\u0131rlatan aynayd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>O aynan\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda art\u0131k tek ba\u015f\u0131may\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Annemin bana verdi\u011fi has\u0131r bilezi\u011fin anlam\u0131, bug\u00fcn benim i\u00e7in daha da b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc. O bilezikle yaln\u0131zca bir \u00fcniversite e\u011fitiminin kap\u0131s\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131lmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Bir annenin evlad\u0131na duydu\u011fu inan\u00e7, bir kad\u0131n\u0131n kendi imk\u00e2nlar\u0131ndan vazge\u00e7erek ba\u015fka bir hayat\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn k\u0131lma iradesi de bana emanet edilmi\u015fti.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eimdi o emaneti daha a\u011f\u0131r hissediyorum. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc art\u0131k nasihatlerini dinleyebilece\u011fim, y\u00fcz\u00fcne bakabilece\u011fim, elini tutabilece\u011fim annem yok. Ama onun bana \u00f6\u011frettikleri var. \u0130nsanlara kar\u015f\u0131 sorumlulu\u011fum, adalete olan inanc\u0131m, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n derdine kay\u0131ts\u0131z kalmama \u00e7abam var.<\/p>\n<p>Annemin ard\u0131ndan kendime s\u00f6z veriyorum: Onun bana \u00f6\u011fretti\u011fi insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131, onun bana emanet etti\u011fi vicdan\u0131 ya\u015fatmaya devam edece\u011fim. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n g\u00fcvenebilece\u011fi bir kap\u0131 olma \u00e7abas\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrece\u011fim. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc annemin benden istedi\u011fi en \u00f6nemli \u015fey buydu.<\/p>\n<p>Belki de evlat olman\u0131n ger\u00e7ek sorumlulu\u011fu, annemiz hayattayken ona sar\u0131lmak kadar, o gittikten sonra bize b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 iyili\u011fi ya\u015fatmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Yine de ne s\u00f6ylersem s\u00f6yleyeyim, i\u00e7imdeki bo\u015flu\u011fun kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 yok.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen telefonun \u00f6b\u00fcr ucunda sesini duymay\u0131 istiyorum. Bazen bir haber ald\u0131\u011f\u0131mda ona anlatmak, bir konuda karar verirken fikrini sormak, bir g\u00fcn\u00fcn yorgunlu\u011funu onun yan\u0131nda unutmak istiyorum. Bazen de hi\u00e7bir \u015fey s\u00f6ylemeden yan\u0131na oturmak\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan annesini kaybedince, yaln\u0131zca onunla konu\u015fma imk\u00e2n\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmiyor; onun yan\u0131nda susabilme huzurunu da kaybediyor.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eimdi anl\u0131yorum ki insan\u0131n ya\u015f\u0131 ka\u00e7 olursa olsun, annesi hayattaysa \u00e7ocuklu\u011funun bir par\u00e7as\u0131 h\u00e2l\u00e2 g\u00fcvendedir. Anne gidince \u00e7ocukluk da insan\u0131n elinden kay\u0131p gider. Geriye hat\u0131ralar, \u00f6\u011f\u00fctler, foto\u011fraflar, birka\u00e7 e\u015fya ve hi\u00e7birinin dolduramad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir bo\u015fluk kal\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Annem Hac\u0131 Fatma De\u011fer, 94 y\u0131ll\u0131k \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fc tamamlad\u0131. Bir aileyi b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fc, evlatlar\u0131na yol a\u00e7t\u0131, ac\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 i\u00e7ine g\u00f6md\u00fc, sevdiklerini hi\u00e7 unutmad\u0131. Bize yaln\u0131zca bir aile tarihi de\u011fil, ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015f bir ahlak b\u0131rakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Ben de onun evlad\u0131y\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Bundan sonra annemi arad\u0131\u011f\u0131mda a\u00e7\u0131lacak bir telefon, kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ald\u0131\u011f\u0131mda beni kar\u015f\u0131layacak bir y\u00fcz, g\u00f6zlerinin i\u00e7ine bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda kendimi yeniden \u00e7ocuk hissedece\u011fim bir d\u00fcnya olmayacak.<\/p>\n<p>Ama onun sesi, hayat\u0131m\u0131n i\u00e7inde ya\u015famaya devam edecek.<\/p>\n<p>Bir annenin evlad\u0131na b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 en b\u00fcy\u00fck miras, arkas\u0131ndan a\u011flanacak bir hayat de\u011fil, ard\u0131ndan y\u00fcr\u00fcnecek bir yoldur.<\/p>\n<p>Ben o yolda y\u00fcr\u00fcmeye devam edece\u011fim.<\/p>\n<p>Yaln\u0131zca art\u0131k yolun bir yerinde d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakaca\u011f\u0131mda beni bekleyen annemi g\u00f6remeyece\u011fim.<\/p>\n<p>Ve galiba insan\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fcmesi tam da budur: Hayat\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn y\u00fcklerini omuzlayabilecek ya\u015fa geldi\u011finde, omzuna ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 koyabilece\u011fin insan\u0131 kaybetmek\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ben Mesut De\u011fer&#8217;im. Avukat\u0131m, ara\u015ft\u0131rmac\u0131 yazar\u0131m, milletvekilli\u011fi yapt\u0131m. Hayat bana nice sorumluluk y\u00fckledi. Ama annem hayattayken, b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131n \u00f6tesinde onun \u00e7ocu\u011fuydum.<\/p>\n<p>Annem yoksa \u015fimdi b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fcm.<\/p>\n<p>Ne ac\u0131 ki insan bazen b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc, annesini kaybetti\u011fi g\u00fcn anl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Anneci\u011fim\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Sen bana okumay\u0131, insan olmay\u0131, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n derdine ko\u015fmay\u0131, vicdanla ya\u015famay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frettin. Gen\u00e7li\u011fimin yolunu a\u00e7t\u0131n, hayat\u0131m\u0131n temelini att\u0131n. Senin verdi\u011fin has\u0131r bilezik, benim i\u00e7in bir \u00f6mr\u00fcn en k\u0131ymetli emaneti olarak kalacak.<\/p>\n<p>Ben \u015fimdi sensizli\u011fin i\u00e7inde, senden \u00f6\u011frendiklerimle ya\u015famay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenece\u011fim.<\/p>\n<p>Ama bil ki hangi ya\u015fta olursam olay\u0131m, hangi makamda bulunursam bulunay\u0131m, hangi yollar\u0131 ge\u00e7ersem ge\u00e7eyim, i\u00e7imde hep senin \u00e7ocu\u011fun olarak kalaca\u011f\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Allah sana rahmet eylesin, mek\u00e2n\u0131n cennet olsun.<\/p>\n<p>Ben b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fcm anne\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ama ke\u015fke, biraz daha \u00e7ocu\u011fun olarak kalabilseydim.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong>*Bu i\u00e7erik serbest gazeteci veya konuk yazarlar taraf\u0131ndan haz\u0131rlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. 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